Your situation sounds so much like mine, except it is my husband who has lost the affection for me. Like the two of you, there has been no abuse on either side, no smoking, he is a social drinker only, both sets of parents are still together, etc...We do get one night per week alone, but he never acts on it. Occasionally, we do get a dinner out together as well. We are not deprived of alone time without the kids. He is a great dad, I am a great mom, we handle situations well...we just don't have a sexual relationship anymore, or intimate in any way for that matter, ie; touching, kissing, hugging, snuggling. IT used to be great, but somewhere along the way, he gave up. He doesn't want to talk about it. Says he's happy, it's not me, it's him. I'm sorry you are going through this, and I truly hope things do work out for you and your wife. It's a serious problem that causes a lot of hurt, and many people don't realize that.
