Hi Lin,
Patience is a virtue... \:\) your D will get some pressure on her friend!

Let me tell you about my patience...
Well i've been in a rollercoaster this week. DH best friend visited him abroad and it ended up in a huge fight!! I did not know our friend went overthere and received a spew email just as i was Galling. DH accussed me of sending over the friend to spy on him and critize everything he's doing with OW overthere. I replied that I did not speak with friend since Jan which was the truth. Did not feel like defending myself since it was too ridiculous for words. DH called the next day to apologise. We had a good talk I was very sweet and even apologised for how it used to be...

Then the day after the friend called. He told me that he overheard OW vent for 10 minutes to DH that she was certain that I was behind all of this... Can you imagine??? She apparently put DH up to sending the email. I felt terrible that he did not defend me but I also knew that DH was brought up with a lot of mistrust. OW takes advantage of this. When DH was overhere I told him I spoke with the friend but would not continue to do so as i knew it would make DH uncomfortable. He replied I should do as I please. I continued to say that I have never ever lied to DH and would not start now. He knows the truth about this. Did not say anything about OW.

Anyway, in our house we let an appartment. The people who rent the place told me last week they are moving out in sept. the month DH will return from abroad. DH never talks about these people but suddenly asked how they were doing and I replied they were leaving. After he left he called me a few times abpout the appartment and how we should solve this. the last time he called he asked me how I would feel if he came to live there...
He would be living in the same house. I live a floor above. What do you think?

The friend told me DH said that he thought he loved me more than OW. He did not look at the OW in a long term way and would see how things were going when he went back in sept. He also told our friend that he saw my changes but was afraid that things would turn back to the way they were when he would return. I feel this might be a wonderful opportunity to build a friendship again and grow closer and show him things are not going back to the old marriage. It will take time though and OW might still be around... I'm hoping he will go through with this.

Sorry for my huge hijack...
Wanted to let you know what's going on and what do you think?

Well let me know when you'll be leaving for Greece and where you're off to!!
hug \:\)