Thanks (((L))) A friend told me yesterday that I need to be the rock , the anchor for my family . The Kids need to have that stable influence no matter what W gets up to.
Oh yes she is a mess right now , I wonder if there has been another lovers tiff as well , just got that feeling. Perhaps paradise doesnt look as good in reality.
You know what its like when you are looking to buy something , you see it in the shop , its expensive but you need to have it , You get single minded about how to get it , make sacrifices to get it , you dream about how wonderful it will be to own it. So you buy it against your own better judgement because your emotions are in control. But when you get it home it has some features that are different to what you are used to , it just dosn't seem to fit as well as it did in the shop , the gloss wears off. A couple of months later its just another Car/ appliance / pair of shoes etc.
