I will check it out Spike Thanks JustD. I know the feeling, I just got hit with my dose of horrible reality a week ago, so I am still in shock, and my stomach turns every time I look at her. Sad thing is I still love her, and for some crazy reason I do believe it has been non-sexual, but I am not convinced that its not what she wants and is why she has asked for the D.
H-40 W-33 Married 13.5 yrs S18, S11, D15, D9 W asked for D on 6/05/07