Take a look at the success stories, posted in For Newcomers I think. Also take a look at the Piecing forum, if you want to see both some successes (and the hard road you're in for if you do reconcile... I consider my story a success so far in that my H has come home and is trying again, but it's sure tougher than I ever imagined).
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread