Is there any hope? Anyone had any success

[sadhearted]

My H hasn't been unfaithful to me as of yet. And right now there's no reason to believe that he is now. So until I have proof I'm not going to worry myself with that.

He also has refused to go to counseling this time around. We went a couple years ago and it was really helpful he even said so, but for some reason won't go now. I hate that my kids (7 & 3) or going through this but it's out of my control. All I can do is help them through this as much as possible.

You know everyone likes to throw out the saying if you love something let it go if it comes back it was yours to start. Well let's see he's come back 4 times shouldn't that mean he's mine? lol

Yeah I hear ya about not having much to offer. Feel the same way but it helps to be able to just talk with other people who KNOW what you're going through.

I'd love to be able to post a success on here one day. Hope that happens! Until then we all just have to hang tough and take care of us and our kids.