Is there any hope? Anyone had any success

[truebronco]

Thanks gang, I have to believe there is hope. As I know you all do, you wonder what they are thinking, and what they are giving up. And like in my case I know some others are experiencing, they dont even want to try, refuse counseling, lets just call it quits and throw away 13 years and put our kids through misery along with us.
I am hoping and praying this horrible nightmare will end someday. I would love to hear of your success as it happens PMA, and anyone else out there. Sad hearted I hope he stays this time and hope he wakes up.
If I have to go through this I appreciate going through this with you all. I dont have much to offer to any of you as far as good advice, or I guess I wouldnt be going through this Ha!
Are all of you also dealing with infedility as I am. Of course she doesnt admit to an Affair, says its not an affair because it has been non-sexual. But admits to having lunches with him, going to the mall with him while I am working, and I had the phone company send me the phone records and they have talked every single day for 9 months. Saddest thing is he was my friend also, coaching football together, taking our boys to movies together. makes me sick.