My age is 29, and he just turned 43. A lot may think that is a huge age difference, but for us, it was perfect. We like the same things, ie, same music, hobbies, etc... We are just on the same level and are very compatible. NOthing major has happened in our lives. We did make a move (he is military), but he wanted the move, and he chose the place. He is happy here, or he says he is anyways. There have been no deaths in the family, no loss of anything. I just can't understand what it is. I try to talk about it, but he just won't do it.

And about the "other woman". I guess a person can never be to sure if there is someone else can they? He says there isn't, but that is always the first thing that comes to mind when your spouse stops having relations with you, sexual or otherwise. I hope he isn't. It would truly rush me.