It's the hiding and lying that is the true cheating. If you wouldn't do something with your wife standing right next to you, doing it when you're alone is not okay for the simple reason that it's a betrayal. Doesn't matter what it is.
Could not have said this better myself.... if you really love her take a cold hard look in the mirror ands stop BS ing your way out of this. Best of luck to you. God bless,,,
