H just called about how to get to this realty office and my computer froze. I state I will call you back when it comes up again K? He calls back w/in 1 minute, not enough time.
And starts with,, you are soooooooooooooo SLOW honey you have to put your batteries on!!!!!!!!! I need to see some movement.. ARE YOU [censored] SERIOUS?
I STATE: Actually honey, I am not slow the computer is.
H: more grumbling
M: Well if you are near Pepper Ave it is....
H: what the [censored] does Pepper Ave &(&*^^ *(&*(*(* B*(* and so on and so forth.... I pulled the phone away from my ear and he went on...
M: Well honey I hope you can hear me cause I cant hear you the phone is away from my ear. I do not want to hear your yelling. The realty office is one block south of Pepper...
H: one block south?
M: yes one block south...
H: Ok , bye.
My old friend Santhony always tried to help me understand how to diffuse these outbursts. I would try and do well and then my strength would waiver and I would allow him to be rude and get very, very upset. As hard as this will be, he has been like this for more years than not, he is going to have to vent and be moody with his crew or others and I will no longer allow myself to be his safe place to blow up.
He is as sweet as PIE to everyone but me. I dont think so MR. Love ya~ but your acting like a spoiled brat has got to go.
This is going to be interesting, and hard too. But I can do it! God bless....