Guess this is my good bye. After three months of this, combined with my wife's assorted mental illnesses, throw in she has already filed for a divorce, I have finally given up, and I am not sad about it, I am damn happy \:\) I finally decided I am worth more than this b.s., I am not wasting another second of my life on her madness. Did I say it feels good? \:\)

While I may have not been successful at stopping my divorce I know I did absolutely everything possible, and after tons of soul searching I realized I wasnt that bad of a husband in the first place, my wife was just wacked out with her own issues that I have finally been able to set myself free from. However using the DBing GAL approach I have been able to move on with my life. Even if your marriage doesnt get saved, its still worth the effort \:\)