I think this is a great idea, and I think it is important to think about possibly telling your H what GALING said was comforting to hear from her WAH:
"I am trying right now. I know it is hard to understand but this is all I can do right now. I need space and time to heal and work on me."
Between this and IC sessions, I think he may get a better insight into your needs and what he MUST DO to meet them. I'm currently reading His Needs, Her Needs (or vice versa) and I think we would all benefit from getting this book, too.
