Ah good thinking. My stepdad told me to keep him guessing.... So I'm going to try really hard when I get my job to not even tell him. I mean we have kids so he'll obviously find out, but I'm not going to rush out and do it myself. (or so I'm telling myself) lol

Least you all are doing stuff together. My oldest has a soccer tournament next month out of town. Just found out the arrangements and informed my H. Not sure how he feels about it. We'll be sharing a room with double beds and two kids mind you. He seems to think that's just not right. He hasn't said yes or no at this point. I told him look this isn't about us this is about Jared. We had this planned before he left and it's only one night for crying out loud.

Couldn't tell you what mine eats or when or how he's sleeping or how is job is going or... Well couldn't tell you anything actually. lol


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07