My wife left me last Thursday. She took our 2 year old boy and just dropped the bomb on me, over the phone at work. We bought a house a couple of weeks ago, she got a dog a week ago. I'm standing her just lost. I've cried over this way to long. Yesterday, I decided that I was going to live me life, make the necessary changes in me that i can control, the ones that drover her away. She came over last night and wanted to fight, I refused, she was so lost she couldn't believe the sudden change. She tried for 2 hours, until she finally went "well I'll let you have the bed and I'll sleep on the couch." I told her she had to leave, she abandoned me and this house and has a new boyfriend and at this time it wouldn't be appropriate and i don't want my son more confused than he is. Last night, he asked if I missed him and he told me he missed me, he is two, I just broke down.
Her mother went through a divorce that would easily be a blockbuster movie and so she knows just how deep the pain goes. She keeps calling me and doing all she can to help, but unfortunetly my brother in law is in town just pushing this thing. He is rather immoral and sleeps around on his wife. I have never trusted him.
Other than my boy, everthing seems to be going alright, lines of communication are open, the tension has decreased.
What do i do about our anniversary. It is this Sunday and while I want to make her dinner, feed her choclate strawberries I just get the feeling it won't happen. Sorry laughing at myself is helping at this point. I was going to send flowers with a friendship message. Should I even acknowledge it? What do I do?
I have ordered DB and DR, hopefully they are here early next week I can't wait to read them.
