Is there any hope? Anyone had any success

[truebronco]

I am not being negative, and I throughly have enjoyed and appreciate the advice and support the past few days from all of you. But as I read through all the threads and everyones stories, I am scared there is no hope in saving my marriage. I see everyone has the same horrible sitch's I am going through. I knwo there are no guarantees and I am facing the fact that most likely my 13 year marriage is over. But does anyone succeed, do I have any chance at all of her opening her eyes?
Sorry to whine and not trying to bring everyone down, but this is a tough day,