Why do these things happen V

[mkultra]

I do not do anything to track what my wife is doing or spending. I only know the cell phone, she does not have a home phone, because it comes to me and I pay it. Yes I have cheated and looked at it. The only people she calls is her parents, rarely, pizza places, rarely again, and me, more than the other 2.

My W swtiched her cellphone to her own plan, REMEMBER?????

I've always watched the bank balances on-line, it's not a new behavior and not snooping. It's just a habit I have to see the numbers in there.

I just had the cell phone drama this weekend. i figured even though he wanted to kick me off of his plan it would be a good idea to get my own phone. Sometimes I feel like this separation is half leaving and half being kicked out simultaneously. I told my mother to not give my H my new cell phone number. I said he could reach me at home. Under no circumstance do I want to communicate with him on the cell. It is so painful that he never answers my calls or never returns my voicemails. This way I know he cannot reach me so I will not be let down. Plus, I will not feel tempted to call him randomly because of caller ID. I will have freedom from that drama.

[789]

Plus, I will not feel tempted to call him randomly because of caller ID.

I guess we better not tell you how to block your # when you make a phone call then

[789]

Maybe my wife does miss me a little bit. I just checked my phone, out of our last 40 phone calls to each other, she called me 36 of them. Okay, I must be getting bored.

[JR2007]

Maybe my wife does miss me a little bit. I just checked my phone, out of our last 40 phone calls to each other, she called me 36 of them. Okay, I must be getting bored.

Oh yeah? I still have the last Text Message from my W saved on my phone (3/30). That's pathetic...

[789]

Well I did sit out on my patio and watched the sunset, hope she saw it where she is too. It was actually pretty with some of the smoke in the air.
I was kind of hoping she would call tonight, but she did not. I really didn't expect her to call but it would have been nice.

Want me to send you a text message JR?

[mkultra]

Maybe my wife does miss me a little bit. I just checked my phone, out of our last 40 phone calls to each other, she called me 36 of them. Okay, I must be getting bored.

Oh yeah? I still have the last Text Message from my W saved on my phone (3/30). That's pathetic...

Me too! I was cleaning out my old emails and I found some photos and love notes that seemed pretty recent! I read another marriage saving book that states that we rewrite history acording to our currents moods. When we are depressed we only remember the hard times in our marriage. When we are upbeat we remember the good times. I am being a romantic and now I have proof he loved me romantically. ha ha.

[mkultra]

Your wife mentioned having separate cells to make you jealous. obviously, she is not caling any one. She reminds me of me. I would probably want my H to be a little jealous, too, just to get him to wake up. Not that you aren't attentive.

[MaxP]

Thanks for your input on my thread 789. How are things for you at the moment? Any updates?

[789]

Same old thing. She is out of town on our family vacation, but I was not invited. She is where we were married, hopefully seeing and thinking of things to remind her about the good times. Still 7-8 days till I see her or my son. So for the moment, I am living in here to keep my mind occupied and busy.

[789]

I have been reading a lot of posts today in which family are telling them to let go and that it is time.
I think I will take that as a bright spot in my situation, I have friends who are telling me that, but not one family member on either side. They all just keep telling me to give her time.