Hey, thanks alot for pointing me to your thread in the other forum about dating. Your posts read my mind. I have been out of the dating scene for over 15 years and am slightly over the BIG 50 now so naturally I am a bit fearful.
Your posts help as did those from BarbieDoll. I too found the Mars/Venus book on starting over great - I will get his dating book later on. I also found some "double your dating" type websites of interest.
Thanks again. I know this thread is about you reconnecting with xW but it is nice to know that you have worked into a position of having options even if the xW thing does not work out. And you made those options feel within reach for all of us.