Ali,
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I aint messin around anymore..... a Woman like me deserves so much more.
And the other day I also got in another "witty" comment. Refering to the garbage he allows himself to be in company with and ended it with but I have nothing to worry about cause I am a LADY not trash.
......I was doing very well but I needed to stop playing it safe and being at his mercy whenever he had a mood.
He wants a fine as hell WOMAN,,, HE NEEDS TO START TREATING ME AS SUCH.

NOT WITH GIFTS,,, WITH HIS HEART ON HIS SLEEVE AND ALL THE LOVE AND RESPECT HE KNOWS IS IN THERE BUT WOULD PREFER TO KEEP UNDER WRAPS TO "KEEP ME IN LINE" give me little bits and pieces...
Right on babe! Any you need to continue to communicate this with him in all verbal and nonverbal communication. If he senses one shred of weakness he will exploit it. Be strong for YOU, stand for what is right, and give him all of you that there is to give. You'll knock his sock's off!
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It still is feeling uncomfortable a bit but I need to do this, I have been silent for far too long.
The more you practice it, the more comfortable you will become. He'll adapt, and eventually it'll be a normal routine. I think you can still enjoy sex as it was meant to be enjoyed. As a spiritual bonding. No matter what battles the two of you encounter by day, sex is blessed, and should be kept separate, protected, wild and free!

God Bless,

COG


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