Our sex life was awesome until she found a playboy magazine which I had forgotten I had. Since then the sex life was in the dumps, and that's when all of this started. So it is also a symptom of our problems, but I CAUSED the problem to begin with. To her, even a magazine is cheating. I think she lives in a fantacy land where dating and married people never look around, not to cheat, but just to look. I think it's human nature. I am going to talk to her about everything, but havint the conversation will be hard. She likes to interrupt, yell, say mean things, and speculate while I am trying to talk.