OMG, do Hs watch the bank statements! Yikes! I saw our phone bill and that freaked me out until I found the name for every number was an old dude or janitorial service! But if he sees where I spend my debit card, he will know all my caffeinated secrets!
I do just to get a glimpse of my W's life without me. It's pretty much Target and Walmart (just like before!) I don't do it to track her spending or anything like that. And if she was trying to hide anything from me, she'd just get cash out anyway.
I do not do anything to track what my wife is doing or spending. I only know the cell phone, she does not have a home phone, because it comes to me and I pay it. Yes I have cheated and looked at it. The only people she calls is her parents, rarely, pizza places, rarely again, and me, more than the other 2.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07