I have thought about counseling for myself, but always just tried to stop. I know I can, I have just been dumb enouhg to think I wouldn't get caught again. What I DO want is to stop all this and work things out. The working things out is going to be the hard part. She is the kind of person who doesn't forgive easily, and NEVER forgets. Every time I have lied, she has loved me less, now I am at rock bottom. I know it might be too late, but I am gong to change my priorities and fix myself.