Recently my wife scanned out home computer and found the adult sites I have been visiting. She has caught me before, and I have always lied and swept it under the rug. Now she knows everything. I don't know what to do, to her this is the definition of cheating. I think she is contomplating divorce...after just one year of marriage I love my wife with all my heart, and can't make her see that what I did has nothing to do with her or how I feel about her. That is is just stuff on the computer and not real to me. Even though she knows everything now, I still can't find the courage to actually confess everything I did online (pron, chatting, etc).
Anyone have any advice? I can't seem to stop this kind of behavior, but am now dedicationg al lof my evergy to make things right again.
