I know not seeing our daughter will, but not sure about me. She acts like she couldnt care less about me. The last nice thing she said about me or us was a couple weeks ago when she came home from another night out at business meetings and said "I miss talking with you." I replied I miss doing a lot of things with you. Which I probably shouldnt have said. If I was in DB mode I would have said "thanks that means a lot."
About couseling. We did start out going to couseling as a couple and then when it appeared not to be going any where we started going seperately. She still is going which I guess is a good sign. But, the therapists says that nothing has changed in her mind. Luckily, we both really like our therpist. When we were in couple session she told my wife that these problems are hers and some day she will have to deal with them whether with me or not. She also said that this man loves you and is the best man you will ever have in your life. I later asked her what she thought about her saying that and she just said "thats her job. Her job is to save our marriage. Ofcourse she would say that." Later, in seperate session the therapist told me she's a hard nut to crack and I need to think about myself and what I want and that I need to be happy. I told her I was thats why I married her. Everyone including the therapist is telling me to let her go and move on. But, Im not ready. SHe has been my best friend and lover for 11 yrs. How do u give that up?
