See honey , I am like that with everyone not just you ( SEE I DO HAVE HIM THINKING ABOUT HIS TEMPER ) after he talked to one of his crew members.
That does'nt make it right. He's in denial bigtime. See honey, I act like a jerk to everyone, not just YOU and that make it OK. What a dope! You'll just have to straighten him out Ali!
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I said " You know what honey yelling at your employee and me are 2 very different things. I AM YOUR WIFE and THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN , do not compare me to them, you have tried to say this before. Do not compare me to them, there is no COMPARISON, they work for you, I do not ...... And I DESERVE SO, SO MUCH MORE.
Awesome Ali!! What courage, what grace, what a delivery! Well done! You are my hero!
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Maybe what I heard him say ((when he said help me be a better Man was,,,))) help me to not be an ass anymore by you being awesome and not taking [censored] anymore and loving me at the same time.
BINGO BINGO BINGO BINGO!!! Give this gal the prize! You got it Ali, right on the money. You are a tiger. Are you sure you're not a professional athlete cause you've got the mind of a winner!
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so if he wants this to work it is time for him to get his hands dirty too. Not by force but b/c he will choose to when he sees I am not [censored] around anymore. I promise you all I wont be ugly but enough is enough.
Yeehaw! You got get um girl! I love it, you are just awesome.
The alchohol is going to make your struggle much more difficult though. It takes a special approach. Alchoholics are not thinking like sober people would so you just have to get some education on that so you can deal with it.
You crack me up, what a gift and a blessing you are. Your H see's it, he realizes it, and he's scrambling to make sense of it. Sooner or later he's going to realize that HE'S his own worst enemy, NOT you.
God Bless,
COG
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