I am not angry at him, I think I feel like I need to be heard and respected.
I hear ya, and I agree with you! You just need to figure out a plan to accomplish that, to communicate that to your H in a way that will motivate him to provide that for you.
It is very selfish and disrespectful for him to come home drunk at 2 am and want sex. He's sick, he's an achoholic, out of control. You need some special help with that, try Alanon.
Now then, I say find some time today to jump his bones. Keep on loving him Ali, give him what HE needs, but keep on fighting for what YOU need too. It'll work out as long as you keep on being the rock, strong, courageous, loving, and supportive. You might read the book Dr. Dobson wrote called "Sometimes Love Must Be Tough". It's a good one, might help you.
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I feel like I am in limbo with myself.
Alright now that's not a good thing. Maybe it's time to get regular at the gym again. Hang in there!
God Bless,
COG
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