OMG, do Hs watch the bank statements! Yikes! I saw our phone bill and that freaked me out until I found the name for every number was an old dude or janitorial service! But if he sees where I spend my debit card, he will know all my caffeinated secrets!
I do just to get a glimpse of my W's life without me. It's pretty much Target and Walmart (just like before!) I don't do it to track her spending or anything like that. And if she was trying to hide anything from me, she'd just get cash out anyway.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
I don't do it to track her spending or anything like that. And if she was trying to hide anything from me, she'd just get cash out anyway. 
