I still stand by my advice that if you start R talking too soon, before he's ready, it may push him away. I would start slowly w/ the affection first and see how it goes. If he is willing to go to C, of course that would be best, but if not, I would still wait on trying to talk about things for awhile.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10