I said we are listing the house , but that doesnt mean it will sell ;\) Although, while we are still living with eachother she still gets to use me for everything. When she first moved out and stayed with a girlfriend a few months ago she said she was uncomfortable over there and didnt want our daughter sleeping in a pack and play every night. So she has been living back home which is great for seeing my daughter but we are just roomates.
She has made it clear over and over that she is done and that I deserve better. I'm still not sure if she is seeing anyone else. I really dont think so based on how busy she is with her new buiz. Time will tell. If we do get offers on the house they will have to be what were asking. But, unfortunately while we are still living under the same roof and I am paying all the bills she will not miss or appreciate all that I do. I dont think she will want to file right away but we'll have to see. Right now she acts happy about moving on and getting her own place. Maybe I need to let her go find herself. I think not seeing her daughter everyday might have an effect on her.