Hi Terey - Thanks for your reply. I didn't really want to sell the house but my wife just opened a new business and it is slowly draining our bank accounts. I am just training to protect myself and my daughter 1 1/2. We bought the house together 4yrs ago and it has just become a big financial and maintenance burden on both of us. I cant afford it on my own I looked into it. I think she needs to live on her own awhile to really appreciate all I did for us and our family. Ever since we seperate she still assumes I'm just going to keep on doing my job of taking care of everything. She comes off so selfish. All she cares about is building her new insurance business and not about our family. She has honestly convinced herself that us getting divorced is not going to really effect our 1 1/2 yr old daughter. I think she could be in MLC mode.

thanks again BM