Well, my initial response is you don't have to tell her anything. If she asks, than tell her. But, there would be nothing wrong or bad with you offering that information if it makes you feel better.

And IMP is right (as he so often is!).

Hang in there!

Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs