I think you're dead on with the idea that PMA/self worth has to be continually developed. This morning I read back through my sitch three months ago and am AMAZED at the difference in me, and the difference in H and our R as a result. No doubt, there's still a long road ahead, but I think the most significant thing is that I finally realized (as BeingMe pointed out) that I really will be okay no matter what happens. That seemed easy enough for me to accept at face value, but it took a LONG time for me to really understand it in my heart.
