I would start showing affection and see how it is received, however, I would not start any R talk for quite awhile. I know it seems like you may be "walking on eggshells" for awhile, but it is usually awhile before any R talk is 'appropriate.' You kind of need to have some sort of stability back in the R before you start trying to talk about things. That's just my opinion.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10