I would start showing affection and see how it is received, however, I would not start any R talk for quite awhile. I know it seems like you may be "walking on eggshells" for awhile, but it is usually awhile before any R talk is 'appropriate.' You kind of need to have some sort of stability back in the R before you start trying to talk about things. That's just my opinion.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10