J, Dave,
Glad the link was a positive. I couldn't believe that we ran across it at the exact some time, J!

Not sure if/when the time will come when I have had enough of the roommate thing, myself. Maybe if it starts to get ugly, as in your sitch, J. But I do worry that he is just going to keep going back and forth with this whole thing...forever. Or that he is cake-eating (although I am pretty sure there is no PA going on).

His own mother told me 2 months ago to throw him out...remains to be seen.