Thanks to all my friends here

[brueniap]

Gotta say I am with you on this one 25yearsmlc.......totally. At my age (55) I have learned to not be so blind to quick recoveries.

Lisa-I have to say I see this pursuit thing happening all over the place in your situation. You back way off and he comes after you with regret, love and I want yous. You yield and he tears you apart. If he hadn't been so mean and angry I wouldn't be near as concerned.

don't want you to divorce him - not saying that at all. Please be very, very, very cautious. 25yearsmlc asked all the questions I had in my head - purely for your safety and the safety of your children.

Keep strong, Lisa. Let God lead you in all you say and do.

brue