Im glad I could help you out a bit. Once we are ml Im into it, its the intial beginning of it that I need coaxing. The thing is, I would never act like I wasn't into it, because frankly my h is great in bed, and I have no complaints, only that I wish the toys would stay put sometimes.
He does want it way more than me, but Im hoping over time that will get better. We have a 2 day little vacation planned on Saturday, so Im going out today to see what "items" I can get for it...hehe.
Im hoping that you guys find middle ground somewhere. Are mornings better times for her, or night? I would try and approach to which is better for her. It isn't good that you are not getting ANYTHING... that has to be fustrating for you. I think you should definately talk to her about that.. maybe a nice letter if you don't think she will hear you out. I can tell you from a W point of you, that I wish when my H has these fustrations, he would talk to me about it instead of getting mad at me and just being mean about it.
I would appreicate more communication.. I don't know try it, I think at this point you need to get it out!
Blessings~
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
