Reading your post really helped my understand my W a lot more. W sounds just like you. She goes to bed at 9pm. Has S3 all day. She has had to deal with him a lot more lately due to his tonsil surgery recovery. After the birth of our son, W too totally lost pretty all desire for sex. It became a choir for her to have sex. When we did have sex, I could feel that she just wasn't enjoying it at all. I started to feel bad about asking for sex. Then of course, we just stopped having it altogether. So, thank you again for giving me a W's point of view.
