Sara is absolutely right because sometimes we may suffer from post patrum depression but not just after having a baby and for different circumstances. I am not a nurse, but I was told that some of my depression was immediately after I weaned my last baby. Post lactation depression. I was moody and down and had no desire to be a wife, only a mom. I ached to be pregnant again and then I felt depressed. The hormones in my body surged and since I had to "Perfect Mom" at home and at work the only place I could feel safe falling apart was with my H who, in the past was always a rock for me. Your wife may be testing you, unfortunately, the way I tested my H. I pushed him away and now, he is away. Of course, him getting worked up over some OW doesn't help matters when my boobs were just for the baby!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."