What do you think your H would think if you did start dating? You do not have to sleep with other people, but you can test the waters just for fun. There is a new show called First Wives Club and they coach women to start dating in an innocent way. Dinner, dancing, just so they feel alive after being badly mistreated. I live near a city so all I have to do is take a walk to be reminded that there are lots of cool men out there. I just do not want any NEW baggage. My H has enough issues that I still have not figured out but at least I know if I never saw him again, I'd be OK alone or searching for another. Think of yourself that way. I mean how does DBing work if there is no one there to see it? Does it work just because it is making us feel better about ourselves?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
