Dave, here is the link Dafy provided Donna who sent it to me after I wrote about reading the Love Must Be Tough (Dobson) book: http://www.family.org/marriage/A000001322.cfm - which is, in part, taken directly from the book. I would even suggest you put this whole book on your Reading List (most of it pertains to infidelity/confrontation/respect stuff).

You are in a great place, tho. You're sounding strong & confident, & sooo in control of your life/emotional/R and, for the most part, your M. You are respecting yourelf (again?) and know your Worth. And that's an Excellent place to be.

Last edited by stillme; 06/28/07 03:10 AM.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Me: 45 - WAH: 36
S8; D6
M: 11 yrs 07/06
Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07
To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D