I can't agree with you more on the OW's W thing. This is why I haven't acted on it. The only thing positive that COULD come out of it would be for them to work on it and the OW being forced into finding another job. Since this isn't a definate outcome, I will take your advice. I am dreading when they start working together again once the summer is over, however I have decided to give our M 100% and deal with that when it comes.
We plan on talking more on her sexual identiy at our next session on Saturday. She says that she is not a lesbien and she wants me to be convinced. I will keep everyone informed on what comes out of it.
Addionally, I made the mistake by snooping on her work emails. This really brought me down again. What was done was done and I didn't gain anything out of it except confirmation. I wouldn't advise anyone of doing this if the A has already been admited and it has been decided by both to work on the M.
I thought we were bulletproof. M: 35 H: 33 Together 18 years Married 10 S6 D4 H: EA 3/07 PA 5/07 ended 6/07
