I'm glad to hear that you are 'working' on you as well. Not that you had issues, mind you, but that you are taking time for YOU and only YOU. That you aren't basing your entire life on H. I'm still working on that \:\) but really don't have much choice w/ him gone anyway! It's so easy to lose ourselves in the M and trying to get it back on track, you know? Especially when you (I) kind of felt lost before anyway. I'm happy for you!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10