I wholeheartedly agree with every thing I have been reading lately on your thread. My W is still wrapped up in her A with OM but I know she is looking back as well , She sees a Man that is confident , has let her go , looking after his kids and himself ( Ive lost 13 Kgs = 28 Lbs ) and is now happy. Now if at some stage she wants back in its going to be interesting as I am not where I was 6 , 3 or even 1 month ago.
I know its going to go well for you and you will build yourself a happy successful life no matter what.