Yes, my H is skeptical and thinks that I am being manipulative. Like it is a trick or a trap to get him back and then wham, things will go back to how they were before.
I think all of our WAS's think that DBing is a trick to get them back! But what they don't understand all the hard work that we all went through to get to this point in our lives. And I think I can speak for all of you guys, the changes will stick and are very real!
My W have told me that all of the changes that I made was a trick to get her back and that I talk a good game?!
Ouch! My H told our tharapist that he was sick of me being in my" Save the Marriage" mode. I told him that at least I can look back and know that I tried to save our family while he just walked away without even trying. He said, "Why should I try when I already know I don't love you." He acts like by saying that, that he is free to be a jerk. I can act like a sleaze because I don't love you! I can stop being a dad because I don't love you anymore. Blah, blah, dork.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
