Update...Today my W texted me and asked for me to call before I pick up D3. I text back, okay. I called her when I was on my way and she told me that she was at her new house with D3. I said, okay and told her that I would call when I got closer for directions. I get there and W and D3 greet me at the front door. I told my W congratulations on this new house and that it is cute. I was in a good mood. D3 asked to show me her bedroom and took me upstairs to see it. W said that they just moved everything in today and she is still unpacking. The house is very small, she said it is 1200 sq ft, 2 stories. Patio backyard. It is cute and enough for my W and D3. As we were leaving, I apologized to my W firmly and confidently for leaving the house, breaking trust, and told her that this will never happen again. I told her that I understand that she has her mind made up and that I will not do this again. My W then said that the apology should be for D3. I told my W that is for both of them. I then told my W that I want D3 to spend the night tonight and then I'll drop her off at her office. My W said, no not on such short notice. I told her that she knows that she is not right and that I want to start seeing D3 more. She said that we will need to talk about this. I said, okay.
W then calls me 15 minutes later and I didn't hear my phone ring. She leaves a voice mail and said that D3 can spend the night because she is unpacking and doesn't have a refrigerator yet. She also said that I had D3 all weekend. (Hello! I am not the one who decided to go out of town with my parents. I was the one that was there all weekend spending quality time with D3!) She asked for D3 to call her. When I got home, I had D3 call her. Now everybody is happy. Win, Win situation.
I did have a good day at work. I have been receiving a lot of compliments which have helped my self-esteem and self-image. Women at the office have made comments about me that made me feel...Special...Valued...Friendly...Happy...I have a lot of good qualities and it doesn't help when my W is not willing to acknowledge me. When I receive these compliments, I just say whatever because I have a difficult time believing them. I have not intentions of reacting or playing into these comments. I am just keeping busy doing my work. IT DOES HELP TO HEAR THEM!
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OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
