But you are a man and you can't turn your feelings on and off like a water faucet like most woman can.
Nice blanket statement - unfortunately VERY false.....
Just thought I'd point that out to you.....
I didn’t mean any harm by my statement but I was trying to say that men and women are wired different. So I wouldn’t say very false, in general women are more emotional than men. Yes I know that some men are more emotional than others and some women are not. Most women have better control of their emotions than men. That’s something we learn in childhood.
This is what I think from my own experiences……
Growing up when I was a child it was ok for little girls to have/show emotions and feelings, but boys were told “don’t cry, you have to be a man”. Even when I was getting a spanking or fell and scraped my knee I was told “you better not cry”. Why was I not allowed to cry or get consoled when I hurt myself? So most men at an early age are taught and learn to stuff their emotions/feelings, that’s unfortunate but that’s the way most men were raised. I’m just pointing out the different ways we are treated and I was hoping that NLY got the point that I was trying to make and understood what I meant without an explanation. Chances are that he will know what I’m talking about when I said “you better not cry, you have to be a man” I think that most guys can relate to that statement. I don’t have any kids and it might be a little different today.
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch