I have my second date with my W. I have not spoken about the OM, our marriage, relationship, sex nothing. I have given her space. In a strange way she has given me mine. She does not ask where I went. Has not asked about the money I have been spending lately. She has not once asked for a divorce. During our one joint MC session she mentioned living like room mates. (This would have been ok except she went and had sex with the OM).
I asked her out for dinner and dancing but she said she does not feel like going dancing but dinner would be fine. I think she is afraid that from dancing it might lead to intimacy. I think she may be holding back her feelings. Good or bad. She seems to not want to discuss them. So my question to you all is what should we talk about during dinner?
P.S our wedding anniversary is July 14th (17 years)
Husband
Last edited by husband; 06/27/0711:13 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
