I had a nap this afternoon with some not so good dreams. Basically in my dream "she" was telling me on the phone that she is getting her own apartment. I believe the root of the dream is in something my kid said earlier today, about how her and mom are going to take the cats when the get there new place......... I believe that this is actually a precurser to what is to come.


Was doing some thinking today about the statement "Get A Life" GAL
Something about this statement always did bother me a bit. It is probably just a matter of semantics here. But I remember when I was a kid, if you told someone to "Get A Life" it was meant as and taken as an insult.

Before my situation evolved I had a life. Maybe not the life I was exactly happy with, but a life none the less.

But what I really think when "Get A Life" is said on here and with this program, what it really means is "Get On With Life". Meaning, just because we find our self in these not so pleasant situations we are in. To not just spin our wheels. I know especially in the beggining of all of this, it is almost a natural response to be almost like in a frozen state. Dont know what to do. Oh my God, what can I do. In some cases almost falling to the floor in a fetal position and wailing. <----- I suggest that if the need is there to do that, well then do it and get it out of your system, then pick yourself up and dust yourself off.

But to Get On With Life is to take a "real" assesment of where you now find yourself, and start to figure out what you are going to do next. To find your direction, figure out your goals. To live. To accept this situation for what it is (see previous post). To live. To become a function person at first then envolving into whatever you decide to be. TO LIVE!!.......the best life you possible can!

I mean for how long do you really want to lay on that floor and wail "She (he) left me!!!!!" "Whoa is me" Change is constant, find a way to deal with it. Honestly do you really have any other choice? Live or stay stuck.......I want to live! No matter what life throws at me, I want to make the best life I can. I WANT TO LIVE!!!!

As I typed these words I almost felt as if they were coming from...how to explain.....more than me. Just typing this has helped me alot, and if it even helps one of you then benefits are magnified!!

Yeah GOWL Get On With Life ........... I like it!!!