Actually, I kind of am hoping she gets on the plane if she won't consider reconciliation. That gives me everything I need to make a real divorce happen (abandonement don't play in this state).
My worry is that she may have already "come to her senses" and is just testing me with the proposal. I'm heading to her mom's house in a few to take my son out to dinner, just talked to her on the phone (lots of laughter/good conversation, no R), will probably see her. Wish me luck.
P.S. Work on myself? Hell, not only does she not believe the changes in me, I can hardly believe them myself (10 more sit-ups and I can probably get into your line of work).
