Thanks NM - so I guess at this juncture, I would not be considered a doormat for sticking around despite knowing she uses some far away guy's name for her password? I guess I am holding out as long as I can, believing W is in MLC. I guess only I can know when to throw in the towel. - correct?


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM