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Ok so even if it is an EA. Doesn't change the fact that I am in the 11th hour of my marriage collapsing and I still feel like a steaming pile of crap about myself.

All my life I've lost at love, this one just took 16yrs longer.


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Originally Posted By: JazzzGtr
Originally Posted By: NMHurting
That's what started the big blow out. D12 called crying cause mommy and OM were at the bar.
If they were messing around, what the hell are they doing at the bar?
On a date..duh


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She frequents his apartment.


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as a wise B-Cup would say - Speak LIFE into your marriage........


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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How do I speak life into it when all is dark? I'm dark, the cloud is dark, the path is dark


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4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
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What would she do if you started seeing someone? Just a new friend. Not that this is the way, but I've seen it work for some people. Maybe she wouldnt like to be on a 2 way street. It sucks playing these games but sometimes it sends them a serious wake up call. I'm in the same boat. My wife has told me she wants me to start meeting new people. She is really good at the head games.

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I think that would just send her further away. I dunno.


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R u still wearing your ring? If so that's your answer. I personally took mine off because it hurt too much to look at.

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I will wear it until the divorce is final. It's what I'm fighting for. It's what means everything to me. I refuse to take if off until dead is dead. I had to leave work, couldn't focus. was too upset.


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i find the online poker boring. Besides I can't figure out how to join the same table you're playing. I read the letter man. I think you should send it when your gut tells you too. The reason I don't think you should send it is because you gut keeps changing.


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Married 14yrs Together 17
2 Children (D12, S15)
9/20/05 - Seperated
4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped
4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love
"If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
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